Messages from Bob/Jen memorial guestbook

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This is for the two souls that advanced;
There is no death, only dying, a stage where souls flit by to their new existence. We all choose to experience things in each of our lives, and these two souls chose to experience the transition the way they did. They've merely advanced to their new lives and as a result, they are more sentient, complete souls. Each passing, each transition, is a learning experience, and these two souls are wiser for the passing. You can mourn for them, yes, that's natural, that's healing. We must remember, though, that mourning will not change the choice these souls made before they were even a twinkle in their mother's eyes--we must respect that choice and pray for them in their next life.
It would be the way they wanted it...

HI Brendan, I'm glad to see that you still have the web page on my brother in law. I couldn't connect, but I found you through "Ourworld." I was so happy because at the same time Bobby's mom and family in CT were on line and his brother Peter was on the phone. The song that came on made me cry and gave me goosebumps. I couldn't think of a more approriate song than that because Bobby will always be rememberd. Today on his one year anniversary, he was thought of very much by everyone today and LOVED and of course the missing him part will NEVER ever go away. When Bobby was taken away from us so was our hearts. On behalf of the whole Aniello and Jacobsen family we THANK YOU FOR KEEPING HIS PAGE UP and helping us see and remembering him again through your pictures. You help us deal with our grief more than you know. Thanks again.

Hi Brendan. At least I hope that's who I'm sending this to. :)

This is Lenny Aniello, Bobby (BoB?)'s father. Just thought you might like to know that this Sat, the 20th, would have been Bobby's 17th birthday. I'll be going on a hike with my brother, and maybe my daughter Josephine as well. Not sure where, it's not really important.

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Just wanted to let BoB and Jen know people are still thinking about them. It was the worst thing that could possibly happen. The lottery shootings just brought back our memories of those tragic two days in which 2 lives were ripped from us. I will always remember those 2 days, thinking after the first that things would get better, only to be informed of another death on the very next day.

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My dearest Jen,
I think about you everyday that passes. I can't bear to imagine a summer without you, you made my summers. Remember all of the laughing and all of the fun we always had? Remember Cinnaburstylvania? What about getting all of the counselors addresses? The sleepovers? What about the night you slept over when your mom had Marlena? Oh Jen, I'll look after her and Anthony I promise you. I don't even know what to say. It has been almost three months and it's finally hitting me. I couldn't be at your wake or funeral, but I tried. I sat in an airport for the night but I couldn't get a flight home. I sat on the docks in Florida and watched your star, I knew you were with me. "Everywhere I go, every smile I see, I know you are there smiling back at me. Dancing in moonlight, I know you are free, 'cause I can see your star shining down on me." Since you've moved on to heaven, you've become my angel. But you have always been my hero. I love you, and we'll talk soon, I promise you that.
My love and forever my friendship,
Madeline

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Jen.... Though we were not the closest of friends, I will miss yourpresence at camp and so will the entire camp. It won't be the same without you and we will never forget what we have lost, yoursmile, your love and your memories will live on in us forever. forever.

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I knew Jen from camp, in fact she was one of the first people I met there. I'll miss her this summer when i need someone to come and tell me something funny when I'm down. Jen you made my day. You will always have a place in my memories and heart.

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Bobby was my friend. He was there for me through good and bad times. He has a place in my heart that no one else can ever reach. I just wish he was here to fill that place. I loved him, and i always will, he was a true friend.

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Bobby was my best friend and the smartest kid i knew although he left me in pain i'll always think back and be proud that he was my best friend
Jim Plath
Windsor Locks High

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First let me tell you who I am. I was Bobby's sister-in law, his brother's wife (Peter). We live in Boston.
I think what you're doing is absolutely wonderful. Letting the kids express themselves on your web site, is not only a great idea, but healthy as well. Peter (bobby's brother) still hasn't looked at your web site and says he will in time. I'm sure when he does he will be overwhelmed with the photos and letters you have posted. Bobby was loved by so many and the saddest part is he didn't' know how much. Of course he knew his family loved him, but to see his friends at the wake was something else. I observed alot of kids talking about him, and all of them were reminiscing about good, or funny times they had with him. Because we live in Boston, we didn't get to see him as often as we would like.
Funny, on Christmas morning I was thinking about him and all of a sudden "Rocky Raccoon" came on the radio! Peter was actually singing along and all I could do is picture Bobby and cry. Everyone deals with this in different way but all of us share one thing "We loved him". My heart goes out to my wonderful husband, Peter, to Bobby's loving parents, sister and brother and to all of his family and friends. I hope all of you have a safe new year.

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When Jen passed away, a part of me died. Her smile, her laugh, her spirit, and her uncomprimising inner beauty made an imprint on my heart forever. I loved Jen and I always will. She was more than a camper to me- she was my friend. Jen confided in me and trusted me. Jen will live on forever in the hearts and souls of many people, especially in mine. To Jen's grandparents, my heart is with you both. Jen's death was a tragedy; her life was one that ended too soon. But those who care about her, can still feel her around us. We are the lucky ones who knew Jen and the lucky ones to still have her in our hearts if not in our hands.

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"You and me, we used to be together, everyday together, always. I really feel that I'm losing my best friend, I can't believe this could be the end. It looks as though you're letting go, and if it's real I don't want to know" (No Doubt)
Jen, I love you and miss you more than words could EVER say. But I think you know - you were always so in tune to everyone's feelings, and you could tell more from the look or smile someone gave you than what anyone said. I want you to know that you are missed so deeply and deeply by so many people. The Camp Chase reunion and camp next summer will be sad and empty without your smiling face, your laugh, your insane sense of humor, just everything about you. I think it was your amazing ability to be endearing yet insulting, gutsy yet graceful, tough yet tender, and caring yet indifferent, all at the same time. You were everything to everyone- just by being yourself! Anyway, I just wanted to tell you that. Also, I want to send my deepest sympathy to Jen's parents and her brother and sister. It's a tragedy that they will never know their wonderful big sister. In the words of Joni Mitchell, "You don't know what you've got 'till it's gone"; and Sarah McLachlan, "I will remember you, will you remember me?"

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I KNEW BOB, NOT REALLY WELL, AND IT HURTS. WE ALL MISS U BOB, AND ONE DAY WE WILL ALL BE TOGETHER. THE ONE THING THAT REALLY IMPRESSES ME IS THE WAY ALL OF NHS HAS REALLY COME TOGETHER AS ONE FAMILY. YOU KNOW EVERYONE SAYS PEOPLE AT NHS ARE FAKE, WELL WE ARE ALL TOGETHER ON THIS. BRENDAN I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT ALL OF THIS IS REALLY COOL, I KNOW I MAY HAVE RAGGED ON YOU IN THE HALL BEFORE, BUT YOU ARE ONE SWELL GUY. SEE U IN HEAVEN BOB.

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life it seems will fade away drifting farther every day, getting lost within myself nothing matters no one else. (metallica)

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Hey Brendan...i finally got time to visit your website in memory of Bob and Jen..to sum it up, even though i could go on an on raving about it...it's blazin! And i admire u for doing this sort of thing for the NHS students since this helps us cope with the two tragic deaths. I LOVE YOU!

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A bunch of my friends knew Jen from our summer camp, but I didn't remember knowing her. I heard about her death the day it happened, and I thought it was awful but didn't remember Jen. But I looked at her picture, and now I think I remember Jen. I'm so sorry, Jen. I wish you were still with us. I never knew Bob, but it's also awful that he's gone. I hope his life in Heaven is better than it was on earth. (and Jen's, too, of course) I'm so sorry. They had so much to live for,

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I LOVE YOU BoB! BUD-DAY. I'M GONNA GET MOST PIERCINGS IN THE YEARBOOK. :) love ya-mel
YLP CREW FOREVER...ILL SEE YOU IN HEAVEN BABY

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Bob was a good friend to everyone and kind. He was always happy and friendly. We all miss him alot and we will never forget him. Sincerly, Nicole

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It will be weird this summer not having Jen around. Not seeing her smile, not hearing her laugh. Every summer since I can remember Jen has been at camp sharing her love with everyone she encountered. She will be missed by more people than she would have ever thought. Jen, we miss you but you will always be in our mind, body, and soul.

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I never actually met Jen, but my best friend knew her, and went to camp with her. Sometimes tragic deaths leave somewhat positive results. I know that it has opened my eyes personally about not only the dangers in life, but also the fact the kids my age..and even younger die all the time. I realize now that on any given day, people I know and love, and even myself, can just be taken away, and most of the time with not saying goodbye.

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It has been over three years since I last attended NHS. Although I did not know either BoB or Jen, it seems to me they were great people. This page and all the comments show what a caring environment Newington is and how special it has become as it has the ability to come together over such a tragedy. I am sorry to all those who have been touched by these occurrances. Stay close, and Newington, as a town can get through this.

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Brendan I think you did a great thing for the families and friends of Bob and Jen. I feel that NHS as a whole is doing a very good thing!

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Bob, I didn't know you, but you are REALLY missed, and Jen, I just want to say that I miss you, and so does everone else, you were reall a GREAT person. You always knoew how to make people laugh. WE'LL MISS U GUYS!!!~MUCH LOVE~ Evelyn

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Jen, I miss you everyday and I loved you very much. You meant so much to me and to so many others. The heart skipped a beat the moment you left, but now you will always be part of the neverending heartbeat at camp chase, and in its pulse, you will live forever.

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Jen, you've been at camp as long as i have. Camp will never be the same without you there. You will always be in my heart and everytime I go to camp, i will think of you. You will be greatly missed by everyone. I will always remember you.

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Jen, I remembered when we used to chill together after school and when I was down you always brought a smile to my face. Jen I love you and I will always remember you. I will see you some day and we can be together again

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jen was a great person and i have many memories of her. i love you jen and i know we will meet again someday. God Bless You.

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Brendan, I think it's really cool what you are doing with your site for BOB and JEN. I knew Jen well and knew of Bob. From what I here he was a cool kid and I wish I knew him better. Jen and me knew each other since 6th grade. WE wern't very close but I will always remember her and her sense of humor. Sincerly, Neal

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we'll always remember jenn for her brazeness and all of her ridiculous and crazy ideas

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We had great times at camp, and we will all miss you Jen. We have gone through many great times. I will always remember. You will stay in our hearts forever.

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It's me again. I remember when you had a crush on my brother and you would always tell me. You would always tell me everything. Mostly things you didn't want the counslers, or you parents to know. I will miss hearing about all your crazy nights, and any other story you just felt like sharing. I wish I had a chance to say good-bye, but I didn't, you are in our hearts forever
Love always, Leah(hael)

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Although I did not know both Jen or Bob, their deaths had a major impact on my life. At first I thought that the school was cursed because both deaths fell so close together. Now I realize that tragedies can happen even at Newington High. I as well as all of Newington High will miss both Jen and Bob. I just wish I knew them. Sincerely Staci

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Even though I didn't know either Bob nor Jen I think just by looking at their pictures that they were pretty chill kids.I hate suicides, to all the kids,( not just in Newington ),think it over twice before you do it. I mean look at how much grief and sorrow such a tragedy brings to all of us. There's so many things in life that you need to accomplish. Think about it!!!

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jen we are going to miss you i really wish it didn't have to be this way i am really going to miss you.love melissa parker

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Jen, I remember when we used to chill. You were always trying to make everyone laugh. I don't think you hand any real true enemies. You were a good person and I'll remember you always. See you later.

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Hi there, I saw the article in the Hartford Courant about the tragic deaths of Bob and Jen,and I'd just like to say that I hope the friends and family of Bob and Jen feel better as soon as possible, if that is even possible. Just remember how wonderful they were and you should start feeling better, even if it's only a little bit.Thank you so much,Joannah, a student at Manchester High

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Bob was a good friend and always was there when I had a problem...a smile was brought on my face everytime he called and we would talk for hours...Im gonna miss him calling and hearing his voice...I love him dearly and I know many people did and still do....Just want to tell his family that my prayers are with you......

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They are both missed dearly and forever they will be. I met BoB in my freshman year on the first day of school...me made me laugh whenever I was down...if I had only knew...I wish I could of helped.

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I don't really know what to say except that i loved bob. we all did. every time i think about bob i see happy memories. bob at the halloween thing, bob at the berlin fair, at my house the first time i met him. I dont think bob was ever mean to anyone. I will miss him, and will always love him!

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BoB, You were such a great firend to me and to all who you knew. I wish that we could have seen this coming. We all miss you soo much, and will never forget you. I especially am greatful to have had you as one of my friends BoB, and it is such a tragedy that It had to be so shortlived. I miss you BoB.

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BoB was one of my best friends. I miss him very much and love him dearly. I wish that I could have seen him one last time. He was a sweet, loving, and dear friend to everyone. He wanted you to be happy before he would be. He would gladly give sympathy but would never take it. I have many more things to say about him, but it will never all fit on this page. Cya

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the very first time i saw BoB it was kinda like alove at first sight thing. i realy miss him alot and i would do anything in my power just to here his voice one more time. now the only way is to join him in heaven. if thats what it takes......

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you thought nobody cared. if only you could have seen us all that night. but who's to say. i'm no God. i've never wished to be. i just wish you were still with us

you're sorely missed and we'll never forget you. ____________________________________________________________

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Jen, You were a great person. I never got the chance to be very close to you but I am honored to have known you. You were a great person and will be missed very much. I will always have the memories of you and you will never be forgotten.@---}-------------

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Dear Jen, I never really knew you but I did meet you one time at a baseball game. We kept score together and talked. I think we were sorta friends by the end of that day and I will miss you. You were a great person and I was glad I met you. You will be missed.@----}-----------

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I knew Bob. I am in 8th grade. i really miss him. he will always be a part of me! P.T + B.A forever.,

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Well I didn't know Jen that well. But I did know that she had a great sense of humor and she always had a smile for me when ever we'd pick on Derek after lunch. I am going to miss that. BoB, on the other hand, was one of my good friends. He always had this huge grin on his face and that grin could light up the entire room. I always admired him for his ability to do what he wanted and not care what others thought and for his ability to love everyone and everything no matter what their faults. BoB and I met last year in Algebra II, that was where we, along with the help of Sarah Luckman, created plans to abduct our teacher. I guess we should have studied more. BoB was so smart but, he never made me feel dumb and I could always come to him for advice. I forgive him for what he has done. I don't think he realized how many people loved and will continue to love him. I know that both these people are smiling down on us from heaven and I know that they are finally happy where they are. I miss them very much and am very thankful to my friends who are helping me to get through this one day at a time. I love you B(big "B") o(little "o") B(big "B") and I miss you.

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I would just like to express the appreciation of myself and all of my family for the presence of all the NHS students who attended Bobby's wake and services.You'll never know just how much it really meant to all of us... so I won't try any more than to give you all a heartfelt "thanks".

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I know sorry isn't enough. I would just like to show my remorse and sadness over the losses. It was a terrible tragedy. My heart goes out to all of the friends and family members mourning right now. Although I did not know Jennifer, I did know Bob. Latin class will never be the same without him.

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Both Bob and Jen will be missed by all. NHS won't be the same without them. To me, Bobby was a great friend. He was a very nice guy and he always knew how to cheer me up. His smile brightened up every day. I just want to let him know that I will miss him and I forgive him for what he's done. I know he is watching over me and all his friends. I also want to let him know that I will never forget him and what he has done for me. I will use what he taught me and I will always value our friendship. I know you're up in heaven, in a better place, Bobby, and we will meet again soon. As for Jen, I wasn't as good friends with her, but she too brightened up my day. I looked forward to her little squabbles with Miss Nagy. She always brought a smile to everyone's face. I will miss you Jen. As for you Bobby, I love you and I miss you.

Love
Jess

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Whenever a life is taken prematurely it leaves not only a physical void but a mental and emotional one at that. And when two youths that you know are just gone, it hurts. Even though I did not know Bob really well, or Jen for that matter, their losses affected me beyond comprehension. My condolences go out to each persons family. All I can say with certainty is that Bob and Jen will be greatly missed.

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Well I didn't know either of you but any death hurts. I want to express my sorrow to all the friends and family and let them know they will be missed.

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To Bob Aniello...I knew you somewhat, which is to say that I was in your computer classes last year. I will always remember your unbelievable typing skills without using the homerow keys...Your presence will be felt in my heart as well as others at NHS forever...Rest in Peace...For Jen Partridge...Although I didn't know you, your loss has still affected me deeply. I grieve for you and your family in this time of mourning...your presence will be felt in the NHS hallways forever....

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although i didn't know these two well enough, i give my greatest sympathy to those who have lost these wonderful people. There great memories will always be with us in our hearts and we will never be forgotton

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although i didnt know bob he will be missed. As for Jen i will never forget the way she made me laugh and the way we used to fught w/ miss nagy all the time. i miss you jen and will never forget you

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