Two lives cut short too soon: Bob Aniello and Jen Partridge

The Newington High School community suffered a wave of incomprehensible shock and grief when two young lives were ripped away in the space of 24 hours in the fall of 1997. Junior Bob Aniello committed suicide on Tuesday, November 18, 1997, and freshman Jen Partridge was struck by a car and killed while riding her bike the next day, Wednesday, November 19. Bob -- known as "BoB" to many of his friends -- was just 16 years old; Jen was only 14. This page stands as an ongoing tribute and memorial to these two wonderful human beings.

A picture of the sidewalk memorial which was written in chalk at NHS on November 21, 1997 in honor of Bob and Jen

Click here if you would like to sign a special guestbook where you can leave a message or say whatever is on your mind about these tragic deaths.

Click here to read the previous guestbook entries.

Bob's father, Lenny Aniello, had this to say when he signed the memorial guestbook: "I would just like to express the appreciation of myself and all of my family for the presence of all the NHS students who attended Bobby's wake and services. You'll never know just how much it really meant to all of us... so I won't try any more than to give you all a heartfelt 'thanks'."

In the days immediately following the tragedies, students put up memorials at Bob's and Jen's lockers at the high school. In addition, a roadside memorial for Jen has been set up near the spot where she was hit.

   

Many students have also written poetry in honor of their friends.

"I just wish I could hear your voice once more."
--written in honor of Bob

"This isn't a goodbye
I know you're still here
But still I have the tears."

--written in honor of Jen

Click here to read a sample of the poetry written by mourners.

Click here to read a poem written in September by the late Bob Aniello.


Rest In Peace

Robert Michael Aniello   June 20, 1981 - November 18, 1997

Jennifer Marie Partridge   May 4, 1983 - November 19, 1997


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